Unusual, Uncommon, Not regular. They are differently able.
Do we see them as disables? Time to change our mind set
Surveys reveal that people with disabilities consistently fight with their odds and find their ways to live a happy life.
 So why it is often assumed they are unhappy?
We have often heard people say that they “would rather die than be disabled”. It is this insensitivity towards the differently born people that make them disabled in reality. Almighty sure, has made people differently but where he has not done any partiality is, in giving people immense power to adapt to their surroundings, situation and body conditions.
People assume that being born with critical illnesses is equal to a life of misery and depression. This is the disability paradox! Ridiculing this notion researches show that impairment usually makes little difference to quality of life for example, the survey reveals that overall levels of life satisfaction for people with spinal cord injury are not affected by their physical ability. like a man who after winning a million dollar lottery will go back to being happy, grumpy or serious depending on his natural disposition. Similarly experts say that these “born rare” people after initial adapting and adjustment lead an extremely happy life. Sometime even better than the “normal” people.
Such is the life of Vyankatesh Dattatraya Parlikar, a 25 year old haemophilic patient. He is in his third year of M.B.B.S, and is soon going to be a practising doctor. He says “it is a proud feeling to see patients in the same OPD where you used to sit in the waiting area for your turn”. He has perfectly adapted to his condition and looks forward to life.
Yatish Patali, a severe case of haemophilia. Works for private bank from the past one year and is very efficient with his work. He is also the joint secretary of youth wing in haemophilia society Mumbai chapter. He says “life surely has been tough and painful and there  were times when I lost hope but now I have learned to live harmoniously with myself, thanks to my family and friends”.
(Haemophilia is a mostly inherited genetic disorder that impairs the body’s ability to make blood clots, a process needed to stop bleeding.)
What we as a responsible society of “normally born” people can do is to begin by offering them an approach that does not see their disability as the first thing to their personality. Not to create social barriers for them that are the most difficult to overcome.
This teaches us an important lesson – human beings are capable of adapting to almost any situation, finding satisfaction in the smaller things they can achieve, and deriving happiness from their relationships with family and friends, even in the absence of other triumphs. Our appraisal of life with impairment may have less to do with reality than with fear and ignorance and prejudice. We wrongly assume that difficulties for people result in misery for people.
And remember: Mere existence entails problems. Hamlet, listing reasons why death is to be preferred, highlights “the thousand natural shocks that flesh is heir to”. To be born is to be vulnerable, to fall prey to disease and suffering, and ultimately to die. Sometimes, the part of life that is difficult brings other benefits, such as a sense of perspective or true value that people who lead easier lives can miss out on. If we always remembered this, perhaps we would turn out to be more accepting of disability and less prejudiced against disabled people.